A new Reddit thread is sparking conversation about being out at work and how it shapes careers. One gay man in corporate finance shared, “You have the skills but not the ‘presence’ of a leader,” explaining he’s often overlooked for promotions because he doesn’t fit the “straight, masculine” mold. Others say being gay helps, especially in flexible industries like tech. Still, many agree that higher leadership roles often favor the traditional family man. A Williams Institute study found 47% of LGBTQ+ employees have faced workplace discrimination, and nearly half remain closeted at work.
