My Parents Want Me to Keep My Sexuality to Myself

Dear Andreus, It took me a very long time to be comfortable enough to come out. I have made a few good gay friends and...

My Boyfriend Came Home with an STD

Dear Andreus, My boyfriend came home with an STD.  He swears that he has not cheated, and that it must have been me that gave...

My Partner’s Drinking Makes Me Question My Sobriety

Dear Andreus, I am in recovery and have been for about 3 years now.  My current girlfriend likes to drink and does it frequently.  She...

I Hooked Up With My Co-Worker—Now What?

Dear Andreus, I have a co-worker who likes me. Well, I like him also. We met at a local bar after work one day for...

How Do I Tell My Hookup to ‘Clean’ Better Next Time?

Dear Andreus, I started seeing this super-hot guy, and finally we decided to have sex.  He’s a bottom, which is perfect, because I prefer being...

My Friend Revealed My HIV Positive Status

Dear Andreus, I am HIV positive and have been for many years.  I live a healthy life and maintain an undetectable status.  Even though a...