Dear Andreus,
I have been dating my boyfriend now for 5 months. We decided to just date and get to know each other before having sex. We finally had sex two weeks ago, and it was horrible. I don’t want to go into detail, but I don’t want to have sex with him again. I don’t know how to tell him this because I really like him. What can I do?
Sincerely,
JoJo P.
Dear JoJo,
The only thing you can do is be honest. Just chose your words carefully. Maybe you can talk about the experience and try again with a better understanding of each other’s expectations. Maybe you spent so much time together, that you created unrealistic expectations. Take your time and think things through. If you really like this guy, then try to work on your relationship beyond simply the physical aspect. Hope this helps.
