You always make me laugh while giving the real talk I need. So here I am, crawling into your inbox from my messy bed with a messy problem. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. He’s sweet, committed, and honestly, I know he loves me. But… he went through my phone. And that’s how he found out I’ve been cheating. He confronted me, I panicked, and now everything is falling apart. Here’s where I’m stuck: I feel like my privacy was totally violated. A phone is personal, right? But on the other hand, I know what he saw was real. I wasn’t being faithful. I feel angry at him for snooping, but also guilty for lying. Am I wrong for being upset about my phone being checked? Or is he wrong for snooping? Or maybe we’re both wrong? FayWhat, I don’t know how to sort this out. Please, help me untangle this mess—I need your wisdom and maybe a little tough love too
