Before he was headlining films on KinkMen like Make Daddy Proud, Brogan was a self-described “good Midwest boy” growing up in Minnesota. He was athletic, quiet, and far more likely to be found on a hockey rink than in front of a camera. He followed the rules, stuck to “the plan,” and even built a successful corporate sales career in New York City. But when the pandemic upended his carefully mapped-out life, Brogan found himself at an unexpected crossroads. What began as a creative outlet—gogo dancing, stripping, and modeling on the side—quickly evolved into a bold reinvention. Launching his OnlyFans during lockdown meant embracing a path he couldn’t walk back from, but it also opened the door to a thriving career in adult entertainment.
How did you discover the adult film world and what made you say, “Yeah, this might actually be for me”?
I first discovered KinkMen and their Bound Gods videos when I was in college. Thank God my freshman roommate had a fiancé and was always at her apartment instead of our dorm room. I had endless hours to doom scroll and I found myself in some darker corners of the porn world, and something just felt right to me. I felt like I understood it.
Kink means different things to different people. How do you define it?
For me, it’s that feeling of taboo. Now, let’s be honest, what someone with no experience in kink feels is taboo will probably be very different than what I feel is taboo today. But I don’t think it’s my place to tell someone, “Oh, no that’s not kink. What you’re doing isn’t enough. You don’t belong here.” That’s definitely not what kink is about, and for me its ALL about exploring and finding your boundaries and trying new things, and maybe even pushing those boundaries to test out what happens when you push just a little further past “taboo.” It’s having that feeling and then also being given permission to go further when you’re ready for it.
What do you enjoy most about working in fetish films?
My scenes and my experiences with my scene partners are never the same. There’s no set destination; there’s no right or wrong way for the scene to play out. We communicate, we negotiate, we make a plan and then get to share in this really unique time together that hopefully we come out of feeling really incredible about.
Do you have a favorite KinkMen film?
I have two that are really special for me. Outside of performing, I have real-life dominant-submissive relationships with Apollo FFates and Wyld Ryder, and I’ve gotten to bring those connections from my personal life into the Bound Gods dungeon and share that with the fans, and those both felt really special to me. I know that sounds actually sort of sweet and really nice, but personally, I also have a huge humiliation kink with my submissives, so getting to take our play and bring it to a larger platform and audience to show them off in that way really just intensifies those scenes for me.
Has exploring kink helped you learn anything unexpected about yourself or your boundaries?
As I’ve delved further into the kink community, it’s really helped me work through some psycho-sexual hang ups I had been holding onto about my sex life. It’s given me the freedom to enjoy a much wider field of options for my sexual pleasure.
How important are communication and consent in kink?
I think the single most important thing that people need to know is that nothing in the kink and fetish world happens without consent, even in consensual non-consent role-play. I don’t want to do any of this with someone who isn’t enthusiastic about doing it with me. Communication and agreement are key, and if there isn’t consent, then what you’re talking about isn’t kink anymore.
What’s a misconception people often have about kink?
One thing that I really have a hard time with is that if you’re into things like impact play, humiliation, or consensual non-consent, that you must be a violent person, or get off on real world sexual violence, or something like that. I get a ton of DMs from people making some pretty extreme accusations about what an evil and abusive person I must be, and meanwhile, I’m sitting on my couch building Legos and watching Star Wars on a Friday night.
Legos?
I’m really just a big nerd. Building Legos and taking care of my plants are the things that really help me find peace in all the chaos of the world. I won’t even say that I love working out and being at the gym. I don’t.
What else do people get wrong about you?
That I’m ONLY into really intense kink sex. I’ve had a number of guys turn me down because they think I’m too intense. For me, great connection makes great sex, even if it’s not kinky sex. And sometimes that great connection means something a little slower, gentler, romantic. If the connection is there, then I’m always game.
For the kink curious, what’s your advice?
Don’t be intimidated. Everything about this stuff seems intimidating, I totally get that. Even the guy with a full closet for his leather and latex and toys remembers what it felt like to dip his toe in for the first time. When you’re observing from the outside, there’s a lot of aggression and intensity, and it’s totally understandable to think that’s just how kink and fetish people are all the time. But there’s a whole different side of all of this that is about community building and connection and welcoming people in. And if you can find any type of group to connect with and get involved with, online or in person, I think you will be so surprised at how welcoming people are.
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