The AskGayBrosOver30 subreddit recently sparked a lively discussion: “What are some things you could get away with when you were younger but can’t now that you are older?”The conversation began with one user lamenting that sass now just makes him seem like a “bitchy old Queen.” Many chimed in, agreeing that older gay men often act like high school mean girls. Another hot topic was hangovers, with one user in his late 40s saying, “Hangovers hit differently than they did in my 20s!” Hugging was pointed out, with touchy interactions now being seen as inappropriate.