When we start dating someone, we’re all tuned in to spot red flags. In those first two or three months, trust builds, and we feel like we’ve made a solid choice. But here’s the catch — some of the most damaging red flags in queer relations don’t show up until we’re already emotionally invested. Relationship experts have laid out some delayed red flags that often sneak in after the honeymoon phase ends. The red flags include, your partner finding excuses not to work, saying vile things, or even isolating you from your chosen family. Some may have serious anger issues, lie about their past, or talk badly about you behind your back. One red flag many overlook? When your partner tries to fix, train, or improve you. Such a behavior may signal manipulation and potential abuse. Another is spinelessness. If the partner can’t express feelings and resorts to passive-aggressive pouting. Love should feel like home — not a battlefield.
