Dear FayWhat?!
I’m a gay boy from Little Haiti, and I’ve been dating this man I really care about. Here’s the thing—he has a record. He’s been honest with me about it, he’s doing better, and I see the man he is now… not just his past. But Mother’s Day is coming up, and I was thinking about bringing him to meet my mom. Now I’m stressed.
Do I tell her ahead of time about his record? Or do I just bring him and let her meet him without all that extra info? I don’t want to start drama, but I also don’t want to look like I’m hiding something. What would you do? —Caught Between Love & Mama
