Luela posted this message on r/ainbow on Reddit: “Hello, female 30yo from Libya I just want to explain how it’s hard being a lesbian in Libya which feels like living in complete isolation. There’s no space to exist openly, no community to turn to, and no hope for acceptance. Same-sex relationships are not just frowned upon—they are dangerous. Even talking about it can put you at risk.
There’s no representation, no support, no safe way to meet others. Marriage to a man is seen as the only path for a woman, and any deviation from that is unthinkable. The pressure to conform is suffocating, and the loneliness is overwhelming. It’s not just about hiding who you are—it’s about erasing yourself completely just to survive. I just wanna share these words to not feel lonely.” What a heartbreaking reality for Luela in Libya. LGBTQ people have a difficult time in many places in the world.
In fact, gender variance and same-gender love and attraction are still criminalized in many countries. That’s why we challenge homophobic and transphobic rhetoric and offer a Queer celebrating theology and spiritual community. It’s why we speak out against cruel and unjust laws. It’s why we remind you week after week that you are God’s miracle and not God’s mistake. Let’s talk about Luela’s situation and try to encourage all the Luelas of the world today.
