Dating may feel toxic these days, but many queer celebrity couples prove love can last. Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka recently celebrated 20 years together. Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi have been going strong since 2004. RuPaul and Georges LeBar passed the 30-year mark, marrying in 2017. Colman and Raúl Domingo first connected through a Craigslist “Missed Connections” ad and now celebrate two decades. Elton John and David Furnish have been together since 1993. Melissa Etheridge and Linda Wallem turned friendship into marriage, and Lily Tomlin and Jane Wagner finally wed in 2013 after decades of partnership.
