My Ex-Wife and Children Don’t Know I’m Gay

Dear Andreus, My ex-wife does not know I am gay. We have children together, and I usually go back to my hometown to visit my...

I Hooked Up With My Co-Worker—Now What?

Dear Andreus, I have a co-worker who likes me. Well, I like him also. We met at a local bar after work one day for...

How Do My Boyfriend and I Get Out of a Relationship...

Dear Andreus, I have been in a relationship for 6 years. Over a year ago, I wanted to leave because I am not happy anymore....

My Boyfriend is a Flirty Drunk

Dear Andreus, Every time my boyfriend gets drunk at the bar or a party, he starts touching people in a sexual or flirtatious manner.  I...

How Do I Date As An Older Gay Man?

Hello Andreus, As my subject line says I am old and have been alone most of my entire adult life. I have had a few...

My Parents Want Me to Keep My Sexuality to Myself

Dear Andreus, It took me a very long time to be comfortable enough to come out. I have made a few good gay friends and...